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saddle-restock in february! 🪡 scarf & cap restock end of january! 🧣 join the waitlist through the product site! ⌛

SHIPPING DAY: MONDAY! - since i am packing all orders myself, all orders are packaged on monday and picked up on tuesday.

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nice to meet you!

photo by rena brennecke
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i'm sanja zündorf, the founder of entzück dich selbst. i'm 31 years old and live in cologne. for now, this is still a one-woman-show.
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for a long time, i thought i was the only woman who masturbated. i never talked about the topic with my group of friends, even though we talked very openly about sex. In 2019, I looked into the topic scientifically for the first time and realized how incredibly little many women and vulva wearers know about their bodies - even though masturbation is an important part of sexual emancipation. only those who know what they want can say no to things they don't want.

 

in my master's thesis, i revisited the topic and wrote a scientific paper on “the influence of patriarchal social structures on female masturbation with sex toys”. in my research and a survey of over 500 women, i was shocked to discover how many women are ashamed of their way of masturbating simply because they don't masturbate using the male gaze, i.e. lying on their backs and penetrating themselves.

this is my mascot, zücki. they were designed by luise kanein.

humping pillows was on the one hand particularly popular and on the other hand associated with a lot of shame. I decided to destigmatize masturbation with pillows to create a collection of toys that are made for just that!

I also want to educate people in other areas, which is why there will be books, manuals and many other exciting things on the subject in the future!

i you are curious about my personal life, you can follow my private instagram-account as well. :)

FAQ

are the saddles washable?

yes! all saddles are mashine washable at 40 degrees - but they do not need to be washed after every use.

how long does the delivery take?

i package all orders myself. it takes up to 5 days for the order to be shipped - shipping usually happens every monday. in germany shipping with DHL takes around 2-3 days. internationally i try to work with UPS, because they are quick and reliable - but sadly they charge a hefty extra fee for deliveries outside of metropolian areas, which is why i tend to choose DHL for those. if you live in a metropolian area, delivery with UPS should take around a week - DHL can take up to 4 weeks.

when is the next restock?

you can always check the date for the next restock in my instagram bio! click here to check the instagram

how do i get on the waitlist?

click on the product you want, click on "notify me when back in stock" and type in your email-address! :)

how does it work?

if you are unsure whether the toys can work for you, i recommend a test ride on a standard pillow. maybe even add a rolled up towel - concentrate on your hip and pelvic muscles and the pressure on the clitoris. you will quickly realize whether this kind of masturbation is something for you even without the toy. the saddles only make it better :)

where are the products made?

all my products are made, sewn, printed or knitted in germany.