i'm Sanja Zündorf, the founder of entzück dich selbst. i'm 30 years old and live in Cologne.

for a long time, i thought i was the only woman who masturbated. i never talked about the topic with my group of friends, even though we talked very openly about sex. In 2019, I looked into the topic scientifically for the first time and realized how incredibly little many women and vulva wearers know about their bodies - even though masturbation is an important part of sexual emancipation. Only those who know what they want can say no to things they don't want.

in my master's thesis, i revisited the topic and wrote a scientific paper on “the influence of patriarchal social structures on female masturbation with sex toys”. in my research and a survey of over 500 women, i was shocked to discover how many women are ashamed of their way of masturbating simply because they don't masturbate using the male gaze, i.e. lying on their backs and penetrating themselves.

Riding pillows was on the one hand particularly popular and on the other hand associated with a lot of shame. I decided to de-taboo masturbation with pillows to create a collection of toys that are made for just that!

I also want to educate people in other areas, which is why there will be books, manuals and many other exciting things on the subject in the future!

i you are curious about my personal life, you can follow my pivate instagram-account as well. :)